The mention of the word ‘wedding’ evokes a variety of emotions. It’s the beginning of a brand new journey in life, one that can be nerve-wracking but equally exciting at the same time. In addition to the two people involved, there’s one element that’s central to this entire affair – the wedding band.
While we all know it’s an essential piece of jewellery when you plan to say ‘I do’, what does it actually symbolize? Let’s find out…
Peek Into the Past
The wedding ring made its presence felt in several parts of the world; from ancient Egypt to Rome and Greece. Historically, promise rings were pretty popular. It was made from sterling silver and inscribed with a poem or ‘posey’. This style of ring was dominant during the Renaissance era. During the 16th and 17th centuries, European wives were given gimmel rings, which included two interlocking bands. Post-engagement, the groom and bride were meant to adorn one ring each. The two bands were then reunited during the wedding ceremony and were subsequently worn together by the wife.
Essentially, the wedding band was (and still is) considered a symbol of being married. It was usually forged in precious metal and was typically worn on the base of the left finger. The reason for its specific positioning on the hand was that people believed the left finger has a vein that runs straight to the heart. As a matter of fact, in Latin it was known as the “Vena amoris”. Placing a band on it was a symbol of having found love and showing your commitment towards the relationship.
Not-So-Romantic Part
In some cultures, especially in early European civilization, the wedding band was also considered a form of marital dowry (sealed with the promise of fidelity). Initially, in the United States and Canada too, the wedding ring was only meant to be worn by wives. During the 20th century, however, it became customary for both the spouses to wear one.
What Is It Made Of?
Normally a ring can be made of absolutely anything. But the wedding band is special and so the metal, gemstone and design chosen by the couple usually have a significant meaning to it. Typically metals like platinum and gold are popular options when it comes to plain wedding bands. Those that feature gemstones usually go for diamonds or other precious jewels, such as sapphire and ruby. Engravings with the name of the spouse, the wedding date or any other phrase important to the couple make the ring even more personal and special.
Symbolism
A wedding ring could have been of any shape and structure. But it is typically a circular band because a circle is believed to represent eternity. A marriage, too, is a promise you make to your partner to stand by through the good and bad times. The circular band is befitting of this thought – it’s a promise of togetherness that is for now and forever, just like the circle that does not have an end.
Also Read – Why Does A Ring Symbolize Marriage?
